Thursday, August 17, 2017

Braille

Happy Thursday, and welcome to the blog. S.J. Wells here with you, and this post is a bumpy one. You could also say that I am bringing up a touchy subject. Yep, today, we’re talking about braille.

Way back in 1821, a man named Charles Barbier who had created a form of raised dots that French soldiers could use to read at night came to visit a school for the blind there in France. A student at the school named Louis Braille improved upon Barbier’s code and in 1824, the writing and reading system for the blind called braille was born. It was improved upon over the years, and n 1905 grade 2 was adopted. Today, a person who is blind or visually impaired can read braille books, read braille on a refreshable braille display, purchase jewelry and/or chocolate with braille on it, write braille on a slate and stylus, a Perkins Brailler or electronically as on a notetaker. Come a long way, haven’t we?

I began learning braille at the tender age of 3. I’ll never forget those long evenings in 3rd, 4th and 5th grade, my braille book open on the table, its thermoform pages feeling plastic and making it difficult to move my sweaty hands across the page. Hours, it seemed crawled by as I went word by word. Several seconds of figuring out what the letters were, then another few minutes were spent putting those letters together in my head, sounding them out, only to realize the word was a simple one, like waterfall. But, practice makes perfect, or at least, practice makes proficient, and today, I read my Bible every morning without difficulty. Plus side, no more thermoform pages; only real paper. LOL

Some say there is little use for braille, especially with speech programs aplenty. I use Voice Over on my iPhone and MacBook, and it works great. But, I don’t process information as well with speech. I need to “see” it in order to truly study it. That is why I prefer my Bible in braille.

Knowing braille has also come in handy when my children were small. I used print/braille books, ones that someone had placed strips of labeling or pieces of plastic pages above or below the printed text with braille on them. I could read to my children while they read along or looked at the pictures. If I used only speech on a computer, the voice of the speech program would have had to read it to my girls. Much more personal, being able to read to them, don’t you think?

So, today braille users here in the USA are switching from English Braille, American edition to Unified English Braille, UEB. It isn’t much different, but if you aren’t used to it, you will be a little confused. I’m sure children are having an easier time learning it or switching than we adults, but learn it we must, if we are to keep up with it. For my part, I am learning as I go, thanks to Anita. She is, after all, the braille teacher, here. :)

Which reminds me; we’re going to be speaking at the West Virginia state Convention of the National Federation of the Blind On Sept. 9, 2017. Our topic? Well, we’re going to be talking about writing, what it’s like to be authors, about education, about teaching, about braille, UEB especially and about the textbook Anita and I are collaborating on. It’s called “Ducking into UEB”, and its current publication date is Sept. 30, 2017. It’s for students, and there are a lot of fun features inside, such as songs and stories to help make learning fun. You’ll be hearing more about it in the following weeks, so I’ll not say anymore just now. But, keep us, our project and our presentation at the NFB convention in WV in your thoughts and prayers.

What are your experiences with braille? Have you had opportunity to learn it? Do you know someone who reads braille? We would love to hear from you, so drop us a comment below.

Be sure and come back next Thursday, as we have another interview to empower you. We’re changing it up a bit, and you won’t want to miss it. Hear from someone who spent her life teaching students who were blind and visually impaired. Until then, keep those fingers nimble.


Blessings.

Thursday, August 10, 2017

Resolutions, and a Little on Canes

Welcome to the blog. Anita here with you this week with some things on my mind—blindness, cane travel, changes and resolutions to name a few.

Summer has blown by, and I find that I am out of shape. As I relax here on the couch, struggling to come up with a topic for this week's blog, I also ponder how I walked 1.8 miles today, something I haven't done all summer. I have been busy editing and revising “DUCKING INTO UEB”, a braille teaching program I created in collaboration with S.J. Wells that is expected to be published on September 30. More about that in the coming weeks.

Also in September, I will transition into a new decade of my life, and though it isn't January 1, I feel I want to make a New Year's resolution for myself just the same. And that is to live a healthier life and to always put others first. So I drank my last Coca-Cola yesterday. And, today, marks the first day that I am beginning to walk daily in order to start out my resolution early. I'm not sure how I'll help others yet, but I have a few weeks before my birthday to think on that.

Anyhow, walking makes me think of using my cane. It is a tool. Its key purposes are to keep me safe, to identify myself as blind to others, and to identify and to detect obstacles in my path. Sometimes, I also think of it as a guide since I use it to lead me on a given path as I walk; otherwise, I'd probably weave all over the sidewalk.

There are different types of canes. I own both a folding cane and a straight cane. The benefit to the folding cane is that I can fold it out of the way when in a vehicle or in a restaurant. Also, I prefer to use constant contact, and its tip tends to last a bit longer than my straight cane's tip does. The advantages to the straight cane are that it is very light in weight, it provides more audible feedback about the environment, and it has a round handle so I can use an open palm technique in which I open and close my hand rather than moving my wrist. For people who are learning to accept their blindness, this cane also demands to be used since it cannot be hidden from view and is more likely to be in one's hand and being used rather than stored in a car or bag.

Always remember it is Ok to be blind. The type of cane isn't as important, as the fact that you use it, and it keeps you safe. Be proud of your cane. Let it tell you about the upcoming drop-off, the metal trash can in front of you, or the change from a rough surface to a smooth surface. With your cane in hand, you can walk for exercise and also to make it to and from a variety of destinations on your own, and you won't have to wait for someone to have the time or to be bothered with doing for you what you can do for yourself.  I learned long ago, a cane gives me independence, and independence has the power to give me freedom to be who I am and to do what I want to do; it enables me to do things safely and confidently. As a result, my blindness will not control my life. Sure, it will still inconvenience me, as it will inconvenience you at times, but overall, we will be able to conquer its challenges with ease and confidence. And, that is what will give us the freedom to achieve our dreams, come what may.


Just FYI, the National Federation of the Blind offers free, long white canes to those who can not afford to buy one. For more information, go to this website, where you can learn about how to use and care for your cane, as well as order a free cane for yourself or a child under the age of 18.

What about you, faithful readers? Did your summer fly by too fast, too? We would love to hear from you, so drop us a comment anytime. Until next Thursday, have a great weekend and remember to count your blessings.

Thursday, August 3, 2017

Some Thoughts on Traveling

Happy Thursday. S.J. Wells here with you today, and I’m going to talk about tricks and tips for going out of town, when you are blind or visually impaired. Last week, I went out of town to visit with Anita. I’m sure several of you faithful readers went on vacation this summer, as well. So, what better time to bring up this topic. Get your riding breeches on, as my mama used to say, cause we’re going on a trip.

First, whether you are taking a car, bus or plane, you have to pack. If you are blind or visually impaired, having someone else to do this for you can work. However, we all have a system of organization, and sighted folks tend to forget about your blindness. So, it is best if you pack for yourself. Packing like things together is a trick I learned way back when I was a teenager going off to church camp. Socks with socks, underwear with underwear, etc. If you want your socks to match, either get a sighted person to help you match them or use a color identifier. Then, either pin them with safety pins or separate them into plastic baggies. You can also use hair ties or rubber bands to keep them matched up in your suitcase. Or, you can be simple, like me and buy all white socks that always match each other. LOL If you want to match up your outfits before you go, fold them together before you put them in your suitcase. Wrap a pair of pants or shorts or skirt inside a matching shirt. Don’t worry about wrinkles, because everything gets wrinkled while on a trip. :) When it comes to packing things that might leak, such as shampoo, body wash, lotion or toothpaste, put them in baggies. For big things like shampoo and body wash, use shopping bags like you get from Walmart. For small things such as toothpaste, use ziplock baggies and put your toothbrush in there with it. Pack hair ties and brushed together in a zippered pouch. Put shoes in bags, and be sure to pack a plastic garbage bag in there for emergencies or to use as a laundry bag if you don’t already have a laundry bag. Okay, now that you are all packed, don’t forget to put those tags the bus company or airline sent you to mark that suitcase as yours. If you’re riding in the car, make sure it’s all zipped and ready to go out the door.

As it has been several years since I have been on an airplane, I’ll leave that part out of this post, but feel free to join the discussion and comment below. I did ride on a Greyhound bus a few years ago, and the one piece of advice I want to give you is this: be open and not afraid to ask for help. Traveling is not the time to become an introvert. Ask questions, let them know you are blind and need help, if you do indeed need help. Be kind when refusing help and be patient; others around you are wanting to be at their destination just as much as you.

If you are like me and my family, you go to the same places a lot. One thing we did quite by accident is find a particular Burger King along our rout. We stop there nearly every time we travel that way to grab a drink, a snack or to just use the rest rooms. We’re used to the stop, I know where everything is, and it’s not difficult to use my cane and find the bathroom and things within.

Well, sad to say, summer is almost over, and vacation is over, too. We’ve traveled back home, and now we must unpack. :( Take out whatever you have used for a laundry bag and start sorting. Lights in the washer first and darks to go in next. Shoes, hair stuff, soaps and shampoos have to be put back and the list seems to go on forever. :)

Traveling can be stressful for everyone, but it doesn’t have to be a failure. Keeping organized is the key. While it is easier in the beginning to let sighted folks do most of the work, you will find you can keep track of your stuff better with a lot less aggravation if you do as much as possible on your own. Be sure to remember your cane, if you use one, and check with the place where you obtained your guide dog, if you have one on travel tips. I’m sure I have only skimmed the surface, here, so again, please leave us a comment with your own suggestions, questions, and/or tips.

Thank you for being with us today. We look forward to hearing from you. Have a great weekend, and we’ll see you back here next Thursday.


Blessings.

Thursday, July 27, 2017

Interviews to Empower Presents Stacey Bruton

Hello, and welcome. We are so glad you could join us today. Our interviewee this month is a good friend who inspires others to be their best, just by being herself. Allow me to introduce to you Stacey Bruton.

Q: What is your eye condition, and are you totally blind?
A: My eye condition is retinopathy of prematurity. I was born two months early and received too much oxygen.

Q: How long have you been blind?
A: I have been blind since shortly after birth. I am a twin. When I was a few months old, my sister was grabbing for objects placed in front of
her. I was not, so my parents discovered I could not see.

Q: Is anyone else in your family blind?
A: No one else is blind in my family.

Q: Did your parents treat you any different because of your blindness?
A: They wanted me to do as much as my other siblings. I think sometimes they were protective. For example, my sister had a pogo ball. It was a ball that had a platform in the middle of the ball. One would stand on it and jump keeping your balance. My mom told me not to get on it. I was very determined and got on the ball when everyone was inside. They may have seen me through the window. I really don't know.

Q: Did you attend a public school or residential one?
A: I attended a public school. My parents moved from Maryland to Pennsylvania so I could attend school with my brother and sisters. In Pennsylvania they started mainstreaming when I was supposed to go to kindergarten. My parents had to go to school every year to talk to the teachers. The teachers did not know what to do with me for my education. My parents worked collaboratively with the teachers to figure out the best way to teach me.

Q: Do you read braille? If so, when did you learn it?
A: I read braille. I began in kindergarten when everyone else learned to read.

Q: When did you begin learning orientation and mobility skills?
A: I began in kindergarten.

Q: What extra curricular activities were you involved in, if any?
A: I was involved in chorus in sixth grade and in eighth and ninth grade.

Q: What was your major in college?
A: My major was early childhood/elementary education. I am certified in visual impairment k-12. I also hold a Masters from Liberty University as a program specialist with an emphasis in reading.

Q: What is your job now?
A: I am a Teacher for the Visually Impaired for Harnett County in North Carolina. 

Q: What types of assistive technology did you use in school? Which ones do you use now?
A: I used a braillewriter in school and a little of the slate and stylus. My grandfather bought me a Braille 'N Print. That was a device in which you placed the braillewriter on a box. It took what one brailled and put it into print using a printer. The Lions Club purchased a typewriter for me. When I would write checks, I counted the spaces and lines on the typewriter to write my checks. I used an Opticon for reading novels for recreation in high school. Now i use Jaws for
Windows, a Pacmate, braille display, scanner, OpenBook, Apple computer
with VoiceOver, and an iPhone.

Q: So you are a wife and mom. Can you tell us about that?
A: I have been married for ten years. My daughter is five. I love being a mom. Some things are challenging, but I think that is true of all parents. One challenging part is dispensing liquid medication, especially during the infant years. Another challenge was feeding baby food especially during the first phase where the cereal had to be real liquidy. As children get older, they are able to do more for themselves and can be very helpful.

Q: What do you think is the most challenging about your blindness?
A: Transportation is a challenge. I wish I could drive so I wouldn't have to rely on someone else to take me places. I used to live in Raleigh and had access to taxi service. There is a transportation service in my county, but they aren't always easy to work with.

Q: How has your blindness helped you?
A: My blindness has helped me see that God has a special purpose for me. Sometimes, I'm not sure what that purpose might be. When i was born, I had a ten percent chance of surviving. My sister had a twenty percent chance of surviving. My parents call us their miracle babies.

Q: What advice would you give to someone who is losing their vision?
A: Connect with any resource or service you can find to support you. 

Q: Is there a particular verse or quote that has been an encouragement to you over the years?
A: Matthew 11:28-30 "28 “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in
heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” NIV

Stacey, thank you so much for allowing us to interview you. Your determination is an inspiration. And, thank you to all you faithful readers out there. We would love to hear from you, so drop us a comment. Until next time, take care and keep on keeping on.


Be blessed.

Thursday, July 20, 2017

Discerning the Difference

Hello, and welcome. So glad you could join us today. Anita here with you, and this week we're talking about knowing the difference between accepting help or refusing it. When do we educate others about blindness, and when do we relax and concentrate on developing friendships? Read on, and leave your questions or comments below.

 As a blind or low vision person, sometimes we get tired of always proving ourselves capable to others. Like everyone else, we want to just relax and be ourselves. If we allow someone to get us a drink, we want that to be okay. We know we have the ability to get that drink, and usually we do get it, but maybe we're just tired. It is okay to allow someone to do things for us. People with vision also do it.

My cousin is quite capable of mowing her lawn, even though she is sighted and a woman to boot. But, she has our other cousin or someone else mow it most of the time, and that is okay. She isn't judged as helpless and inferior because of this, like you or  I might be due to our blindness. Another cousin, the mother of two very adorable boys, relies on her mom to help out with the kids. "Mom, change the baby's diaper," or "Mom, feed him this baby food." Again, she is not judged as helpless or inferior because she can see, but you or I would be thought incapable of accomplishing these goals by many people with vision.

As I've probably said in other posts, there is a time to educate, but there is also a time to forget about education because we are too busy, because we are tired, because we want to show someone else respect,  or just because we want to. The key is that, for the most part, we are independent and other people know that and the ones that don't can witness that on a regular basis by observing us independently doing things. Remember, before we get offended at someone's offered assistance or, perhaps, their forced assistance, we have to step into their shoes. They have no or little knowledge about blindness. They've been taught blindness is the most horrible thing that can happen to a person. They are reacting to us based on their concern for our welfare and because they don't know how to act any different.

Like any student learning about any other subject, they will need to start out by learning in small steps and by watching us teach them through our actions and by what we do to motivate them to learn about blindness. For example, if we rudely respond when they do something for us, what are we teaching them? Blind people aren't happy and are embarrassed about their situation. Poor soul. But what would it say if, instead, we accepted their assistance, and, if nothing else, we gave them a positive experience with a blind person. If this is a person we will see again, maybe it will open the door for him or her to take another small step toward learning about blindness through a conversation with us. It is critical that we know how and when to accept assistance and how and when to refuse it. I'm not saying we should always let someone help us because they pity the blind; I'm saying to think about the situation and how our response will communicate a message about blindness to someone else. We need to send the right message for the small step in their blindness training to occur.

My pastor's fiancee is often willing to give me a ride to Sheetz after church on Sunday, and many times, I accept the ride. This isn't a time to educate her about blindness; it is a time for me to relax and enjoy being pampered and having someone to go in the store and assist me with ordering since I generally rely on the assistance of customer service when I go there regularly throughout the week. I educate her about blindness by being independent most of the rest of the time. She has commented how she doesn't need to help me because she knows I can do it; after all, I manage during the week when she isn't in town. These comments tell me she is observing, and she has learned that I am not helpless. And, she is still learning, but she is very respectful and offers assistance. But if I refuse it, she also respects this decision.

My pastor is impressed with my ability to walk to work each day. Sometimes, blind people get offended when someone seems amazed at what we do, and this can be annoying to me at times as well. But remember they haven't been trained in the area of blindness. While the pastor over assists sometimes, he is slowly learning about the capabilities of the blind. Just the other day at our church picnic, he wanted to know how I knew when I reached the end of the block. I wasn't offended at this question. I was happy to educate. What brought this question up was that, after the picnic, I pulled out my Braille Sense Plus, and began to edit the braille manual, DUCKING INTO UEB, I am writing. Some of them were curious about the refreshable braille display and braille in general. They were also impressed because I could talk with them as I worked. I provided them with a mini lesson on blindness.

The pastor drove me to the picnic, and when we arrived, he guided me to the picnic table and made sure I was seated before he returned to the car to assist the elderly gentleman who  also rode with us. His over assistance in making sure I was safely seated was unnecessary, but I chose to allow him to do it. He was being a gentleman, and he probably was also a little uncertain about my capability to get there myself, even though he regularly observes as I travel about town. Was I telling him I was incapable when I accepted his assistance? I don't think so. I was building a connection so I could help him to take another small step toward his blindness education. When it was time to leave, I stood up from the picnic table and made my way toward the car. He made no move to offer assistance as I approached the car. I know if I requested it, he would have gladly assisted me. Did his observations of my being independent on a regular basis and my blindness mini lesson at the table help him to climb another small step? I don't know, but I'll have to ask him about that sometime.

At this same picnic, an older lady sat near me. We had a great time talking, and others occasionally walked over to sit to talk with us as well. We didn't talk about blindness. We talked about her grand kid and his friends who were out playing in the park and about how she is raising him. And, we talked about all kinds of other things I don't quite remember now. When it was time to eat, she asked if I wanted to go up with her to get my plate or if I wanted her to bring me something. I chose to let her fix my plate. In such situations, food is not always arranged in an abc order so I wouldn't know what I would be serving myself until I checked with the utensil and then I might not be able to detect the type of the food. Sure, I could have asked the person in line near me, but I like most picnic foods, and it was Sunday. I can educate these people about blindness in other ways and at other times. If I were starving, I could serve myself, but I chose not to in this situation. And, in my opinion, that is fine.

When I worked at Blind Industries and Services of MD, or BISM, I did go through many a buffet line where I served myself. Fortunately, on those occasions, the person who arranged the food described for us its order within the line. At a training center, it is important to be what I think of as over independent where you do everything for yourself and receive no assistance with any task. This is critical because oftentimes people who are blind get used to depending on others, and therefore, think blind people aren't as capable as sighted people, when, in reality, there confidence and skills are weak due to lack of use rather than lack of ability.

At a quality training center, like the one at BISM, www.bism.org, the goal is to teach blindness skills, to build confidence, and to develop a positive attitude about the capabilities of the blind. This can only be accomplished if the person fully participates in the training. Unfortunately, sometimes blind people can become so independent that they forget that it is okay to accept assistance after training is complete, but most importantly, that not everyone has experienced the intensive blindness training they have received. When they forget this, they respond inappropriately in certain situations, which tends to turn others away from such programs and/or from the National Federation of the Blind, www.nfb.org, which is unfortunate. We don't prove ourselves capable by never accepting assistance; people with vision accept assistance because they need or want it. We educate others by being independent on a regular basis and by accepting help when we need it. And, like I did at the church picnic, sometimes, we open a door where people with vision feel comfortable asking questions and where we can help them to better understand how someone without vision uses alternative blindness techniques, adaptive and accessible tools, and knowledge to successfully accomplish a goal.

Do you have any experiences you would like to share with us about learning the difference between accepting help or refusing it? We would love to hear from you. Drop us a comment or send us an email at adkinsandwells@gmail.com. We're also on Facebook at facebook.com/adkinsandwells/.

Thank you for being with us today. Be sure and come back next Thursday for another edition of "Interviews to Empower". Until then, concentrate on those friendships, and be sure to educate the sighted in our would with a smile.


Be blessed.

Thursday, July 13, 2017

Baking Blind

Happy Thursday, and welcome to our blog. S. J. Wells here with you today. A couple of weeks ago, Anita led the discussion on flipping foodsToday, I’m going to talk about baking. Yep, you heard that right’ people who are blind and visually impaired can and do bake. Bread, cakes, cookies and whatever else we can come up with. Come along with me, and let’s see what’s cooking in the oven today. :)

In high school I took home economics. My teacher taught me to boil macaroni, mix up a meatloaf, oven fry chicken, how to put on a pot of beef stew and how to mix up a pan of cornbread. But, my favorite was learning how to bake and ice a cake. My first one was orange flavored with orange flavored icing. Just a simple box of cake mix and a few ingredients later, I was dusted with powdered sugar, yet ready to take my creation to a local Bible study I was part of. My second cake was white with white icing, and I baked it as part of my final test in that class.

In 2003 I became friends with a woman who made homemade bread. She offered a class on it at our church, and I went to it. She let me feel her dough at each stage, and at the end, we got to eat our creations. Excited to try this new skill, I cleared off my kitchen table one summer day, put my toddler in a walker and began pouring out ingredients. Warm water, dry yeast, sugar and salt. I stirred then measured in the flour. I plunged my clean hands into this mess and started to knead. A few minutes of hard work went by, and I thought I had made a big mistake. Yet, I was already a mess, the toddler was joyfully emptying my towel drawer, so I either had to keep going or give up and quit. I kept going, and several minutes later that mess came together into a stretchy, silky-smooth lump. I placed it in an oiled bowl, oiled the top, covered it and set it aside to rise. An hour later, I punched it down, separated it into 3 loaves and placed it on a baking sheet. I preheated my oven to 350, spritzed my loaves with water and put them in the oven. Seriously, about 20 some minutes later, I pulled out brown loaves of bread that were almost perfect. So thankful I didn’t give up.

Fast forward several years to 2011. My grandmother passed away that February, and finding it helped if I was busy, I determined to learn to bake cookies. I had a 5-year-old and a 3-year-old and a husband who loves chocolate, so I had plenty of taste testers. I copied down a few simple recipes and went to work. I also began setting aside box cake mixes and trying from scratch. To my surprise, some people even began paying me for cookies.

Now, it’s 2017, and I find myself wondering what types of advice would I give to a person who is blind who wants to venture into baking. At the moment, I’m contemplating baking a batch of cookies to take to my in-law’s this weekend. My first approach, just as it would be if I could see is to find a recipe, preferably something we all like. Several of my recipes are saved on my Mac book’s hard drive, but if I want something new, I search the internet. When the recipe I want is sitting before me, I read over it to see if I have all the ingredients. Next, I get out what I will need and follow the directions on that recipe. A few minutes later, I’ll have dessert. But, what if it isn’t that simple?

Here are some tips
Cookies
  1. Keep your hands clean and use them more than spoons for mixing, especially when the batter or dough is too stiff to stir.
  2. When using a hand mixer, keep fingers out of the bowl and trust your sense of hearing. Also, think of how the mixer feels in your hand. You can tell after much practice  if your batter is mixed well, depending on how the beaters sound and how the mixer feels.
  3. Sometimes, it is best to crack eggs into a separate bowl before adding to your batter. This way you can check to make sure egg shells do not get into your cookie dough. I have also cracked them into a glass and used a fork to beat them. A glass or cup has taller sides, and it is less likely for your eggs to splash out as you beat them.
  4. Keep track where your plugged in mixer is at all times. Unplug it from the outlet and put the beaters in the sink as soon as you are finished with it.
  5. Keep a sink of soapy, hot water so  you can wash as you go.
  6. You can either use a measuring spoon or your hands to place cookies on the cookie sheets. A spoon helps you learn what size you need, but when I use my hands to roll them into balls, they turn out prettier. If you roll them with your hands, press your fingers down onto them very lightly after you place them on the pan so they don’t roll off.
  7. Always use oven mitts, and bake a test cookie before placing an entire pan of cookies into the oven. Recipes are general, and you might have a different oven than the recipe maker. Different altitudes have an effect on bake times and temperatures, too, so test one cookie before proceeding with the entire batch. Also, if your baking time is different then the recipe, be sure and write it down, so you will know next time.

Bread
  1. If you don’t have a talking food thermometer, test the temperature of your water with your fingers. If it feels too hot to touch, then it will kill your yeast. Yeast is a living organism, and extreme heat as well as extreme cold can kill it. Also, keep yeast out of your deep freezer and your mouth. When your water feels like warm bath water, go for it.
  2. Add your yeast to the water and tilt your bowl slightly to swirl the water. Your nose will tell you if your yeast is coming to life. If you are using quick yeast, you can skip this step. That quick stuff is mighty quick. LOL
  3. Follow your recipe, here, too. I mix flour in a cup at a time. Usually, when my spoon has difficulty stirring, I lay it aside and plunge my clean hands in there. I do a lot of mixing by hand way before it ever makes it to a floured board for kneading.
  4. Spread a little flour on your board, place your lump of dough on to it, and get your hands in there. Push down, spread out, gather together, turn it over, press down and… Keep on working. It will start coming together, if you have followed the directions. Sometimes, you will need to add a little more flour if it is too wet or a little more water if it is too dry. You will know by the way it feels, what it needs. Too wet, it will stick to you and the board. Too dry, it will come apart. Keep working until sweat gathers on your brow and you think you can’t do it anymore. LOL
  5. When it holds together and feels silky-smooth, you’re probably ready to put it in the oiled bowl to let rise. After rising, follow your directions. Make sure your oven is preheated, use oven mitts and bake it. Done bread will have that hollow sound when tapped, that you have always heard about.

A note on measuring spoons and measuring cups. I use normal ones bought at Walmart. I keep them together on the little ring, and that way I know which one is which. However, you can buy ones marked in braille from www.blindmicemart.com. Anita has a set of these, and I like them. I've just never had the money to buy them.

I could talk about a lot more than bread and cookies, but these are the basics. Whether you use a prepared mix or start from scratch, take your time, trust your nose and your sense of touch and your sense of taste. If it doesn’t work out the first, second, third or fourth time, keep trying. If you don’t know whether you can trust yourself or not, keep working, write down what you experience and learn from it. The key to baking and everything else in life is don’t give up.

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Thursday, July 6, 2017

4th of July Miracle

Hello and welcome to the blog. S. J. Wells here with you this week with a story to tell. It’s a story of family togetherness, improvisation and simple blessings. Read on, because today I’m talking about 4th of July miracles.

Once upon a time, there was a mom who was blind who felt sad that she could not drive her daughters to see the 4th of July fireworks. Knowing from previous experience, sighted drivers are few and far between, she prayed for help from the Lord.

Around 9:45 pm on July 2, she was in her daughters’ bedroom hearing their prayers and hugging and kissing them goodnight, when there came a pop from outside. “Was that fireworks?” She asked.

“Yes,” her daughters said, glancing out their bedroom window into the backyard.

“Let’s go out and watch,” said Mom.

So, there on the steps to the back porch, Mom and girls sat. The girls kept their faces turned toward the night sky, ooing and awing over each burst of color. “I can feel it in my chest,” the oldest said.

“I want to sneak and watch the neighbors,” the youngest said.

For fifteen minutes, laughter bubbled up, and a closeness, warm and peaceful settled over the backyard, as each firework lit up the dark sky, outlining the steeple of the church one street over. When the display ended and Mom and girls were walking back inside, the girls exclaimed over the fireworks that they had been able to watch for free and without any of the crowds found in the city. Mom rejoiced over the simple, straight forward way that God had answered her prayer.

Two nights later on the 4th, Mom was once again telling her daughters goodnight, when that all-to-familiar popping was heard again. Out the door they went, Mom’s ears pricked and girls eyes wide open. After a few minutes, the youngest got bored and went back inside, but the oldest girl stayed outside, describing each firework to her mom who could not see. Thirty minutes later, the night around them quieted, and both Mom and daughter joined the youngest inside where they hugged, kissed and said their prayers. Another night of firework watching was behind them that did not include searching for a driver nor dealing with crowds. God had answered twice. I suppose you could call it a double blessing, a 4th of July miracle.

When I was growing up, several elderly folks tried to discourage me from getting my hopes up about marriage and children. How could I change a diaper? How would I manage if my house caught on fire? How would I know what my children needed? What would I do about going places? These were questions that haunted me at first, but they also fueled my determination to prove them all wrong. I could get married and have children, and I could do it as well as anybody else.

I don’t know who was putting off the big fireworks over the weekend, but I hope they know how thankful I am for them. Those fireworks went off practically over my backyard; my girls saw them with no difficulty. I had been feeling a little down that I didn’t have a ride to the fireworks displays in the area. However, nothing could have been better than the ones my girls and I were part of both Sunday and Tuesday nights. We laughed and teased each other, sat close together on my back steps and just enjoyed our time together. Money can’t buy that kind of happiness. After all, it isn’t the quantity of time, money or material things that is important, it is the quality of time, the realization that money isn’t important and the absence of material things that puts us in a position to hear from our Creator. Remember that the next time this world and its cares start to choke out your relationship with your heavenly Father.

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Until next time, be safe, remember to smile and hold your love ones a little tighter.


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